When is it O.K to “divorce” a family member?
I can’t take much more of a certain evil, lying and conniving person, I have not returned her calls or had any contact with her in almost a year, she continues to leave me voicemails even though I never call her back, she sends messages through other people asking me to go see her...I refuse.
She struck once again yesterday, and she hurt a person who is very dear to me, she flung despicable accusations and I want to fling her across the room!
I wish everyone else in the family would just learn to ignore her, but she is so good at playing the old feeble woman card, she shits on everyone and then when she needs something guess who helps her?
I guess I’m cold hearted, and I don’t have it in me to forget what she’s done, maybe that makes me a bad person...I just can’t allow her to hurt the people I love most.
I really try to keep my life simple and drama-free, I cut out toxic people out of my life and never look back because I know life is too short and too good to spend it being miserable. It’s hard when it’s a relative...when you know that in her entire life she has only done one good thing (give birth to my mother)...and then proceeded to make her life a living hell, lied, cheated and did every despicable thing she could dream up in her sick head.
Now she is old and as horrible as ever, and she sits in her house and thinks of ways to hurt my family, she has no one else left now that her only 3 friends finally got smart.
I’ve pleaded with my family to cut her off from their lives as well, but they are good people, and they feel sorry for her...I have no pity for her, no feelings but disgust.
I’m so angry because she hurt my family AGAIN and that just kills me inside, I hate that she can still get to me when all I want to do is forget she ever existed.